FORM OF WORSHIP TO PARENTS
"Birrul walidaini" ie charity or good deeds and devotion to parents to fulfill the rights of both parents and obey commands both for not breaking the law.
Opponents said that "Aqqul walidaini", that disobedience to parents by doing what is hurting both the evil either by word or deed and leave kindness to both.Legal devotion to parents obligatory 'ainiy (absolute) while rebelling against both unlawful.How filial to parents according to the Qur'an, as the verses of the Qur'an the following:1. The word "Ah" only includes a sin to parents especially, yell, hit, or other things that are more cruel. It also needs to prostrate to parents always pray both to be loved by God.وقضى ربك ألا تعبدوا إلا إياه وبالوالدين إحسانا إما يبلغن عندك الكبر أحدهما أو كلاهما فلا تقل لهما أف ولا تنهرهما وقل لهما قولا كريما. واخفض لهما جناح الذل من الرحمة وقل رب ارحمهما كما ربياني صغيرا .ا And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and let the mother do well with the best father. If one of the two or both until the age further in pemeliharaanmu, then occasionally do you say to both the word "ah" and do not yell at them and say to them the words of the noble. "(Al-Isra (17): 23) "And humble yourselves against them both with pet and say:" O my Lord, love them both, as they both have to educate me a little time. " (Al-Isra (17): 24)
2. Orders filial to parents after the command to worship God without
mempersekutukannya. This illustrates the importance of filial to parents. In
another verse Allah explains that gratitude to the parents (to devote to both
of them) is gratitude to God, because God created all human beings from the
womb parents.
قل تعالوا أتل ما حرم ربكم عليكم ألا تشركوا به شيئا وبالوالدين إحسانا .الأنعام: 151
namely: do not associate anything with Him, do good to both parents, (Al-An'am 151).
3. Although the parents sent to an act of associating partners with Allah, or the parents are still not embraced Islam, filial to parents continues to be a liability by a child without having to comply with their orders that violate the law.
وإن جاهداك على أن تشرك بي ما ليس لك به علم فلا تطعهما وصاحبهما في الدنيا معروفا واتبع سبيل من أناب إلي ثم إلي مرجعكم فأنبئكم بما كنتم تعملون [لقمان 15
15. And if they strive to associate with something that I have no knowledge about it, then do not obey them, and pergaulilah both in the world with good, and follow the path of people who return to me, and then only to receive from me return, then I am proclaiming to what you used to do.
4. Services of parents, especially mothers is expressed in a verse of the Qur'an, in which a mother willing to sacrifice in carrying his child, then breast-feeding. All services parents when the child is still small and weak to remember and be remembered forever.
ووصينا الإنسان بوالديه حملته أمه وهنا على وهن وفصاله في عامين أن اشكر لي ولوالديك إلي المصير [لقمان 14]
14. And We have commanded man (doing good) to his two mother's father; his mother had conceived him in a weakened state that that of our added, and weaning in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your fathers two mothers, only to receive from me all return.
To close the third part, there is a true story is told of the Prophet Muhammad, about three people trapped in a cave, then pray to God by mentioning the good works they do to God was pleased to help them out of the cave are covered with stones.
One of them mentioned that charity shalehnya is "I have parents who have an advanced age, and I always put the interests of them than my family and my property, I usually bring a drink (milk) for them and do not let anyone take it until after they drink. If this is the righteous deeds that would please thee then we remove it from the cave. "
At the end of the story, after everyone tells charity shalehnya then finally covered rocks cave door finally opened and they finally got out safely.
Let the friends we care for our parents as well as possible, and always put the interests of them. Is a mistake spoiling children and couples but ignoring the interests of the parents who should be upheld in a family. Parents do need the material (money) but there are more important to them that affection. Greet, say hello to them, their health, what they want is a small thing but it means for them.
قل تعالوا أتل ما حرم ربكم عليكم ألا تشركوا به شيئا وبالوالدين إحسانا .الأنعام: 151
namely: do not associate anything with Him, do good to both parents, (Al-An'am 151).
3. Although the parents sent to an act of associating partners with Allah, or the parents are still not embraced Islam, filial to parents continues to be a liability by a child without having to comply with their orders that violate the law.
وإن جاهداك على أن تشرك بي ما ليس لك به علم فلا تطعهما وصاحبهما في الدنيا معروفا واتبع سبيل من أناب إلي ثم إلي مرجعكم فأنبئكم بما كنتم تعملون [لقمان 15
15. And if they strive to associate with something that I have no knowledge about it, then do not obey them, and pergaulilah both in the world with good, and follow the path of people who return to me, and then only to receive from me return, then I am proclaiming to what you used to do.
4. Services of parents, especially mothers is expressed in a verse of the Qur'an, in which a mother willing to sacrifice in carrying his child, then breast-feeding. All services parents when the child is still small and weak to remember and be remembered forever.
ووصينا الإنسان بوالديه حملته أمه وهنا على وهن وفصاله في عامين أن اشكر لي ولوالديك إلي المصير [لقمان 14]
14. And We have commanded man (doing good) to his two mother's father; his mother had conceived him in a weakened state that that of our added, and weaning in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your fathers two mothers, only to receive from me all return.
To close the third part, there is a true story is told of the Prophet Muhammad, about three people trapped in a cave, then pray to God by mentioning the good works they do to God was pleased to help them out of the cave are covered with stones.
One of them mentioned that charity shalehnya is "I have parents who have an advanced age, and I always put the interests of them than my family and my property, I usually bring a drink (milk) for them and do not let anyone take it until after they drink. If this is the righteous deeds that would please thee then we remove it from the cave. "
At the end of the story, after everyone tells charity shalehnya then finally covered rocks cave door finally opened and they finally got out safely.
Let the friends we care for our parents as well as possible, and always put the interests of them. Is a mistake spoiling children and couples but ignoring the interests of the parents who should be upheld in a family. Parents do need the material (money) but there are more important to them that affection. Greet, say hello to them, their health, what they want is a small thing but it means for them.
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